
At The San Francisco School, we empower our students to be leaders and advocates for social change. Today's ‘Day of Silence', organized by a cohort of middle school students, is an example of their education at work. The students and I both know that, even at a progressive school like SFS, this day may lead to some uncomfortable feelings. I applaud our community for working past this and standing for justice.
The 'Day of Silence' is a national youth movement bringing attention to the silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies. By being silent, the students act in solidarity with all whose voices have been silenced by name-calling and harassment. The students are committed to ending the silence by building awareness and acknowledging the injustice.
Four of the middle school students who organized this effort came to my office to share their thoughts. I asked them to tell me (spur of the moment) why this day of silence is important to them. Here are their unedited written answers:
Harriet (8th Grade) - "The Day of Silence is important to me for various reasons. Some of these include the acceptance of others. In the transition to high school, everything seems discombobulated, especially other students accepting each other’s choices on high schools and who they are. Because I have a direct link to the LGBTQ community, this subject is very important to me, and I am glad that the SF School is willing to spend a day supporting that community, and recognizing that LGBTQ teens do face harassment for being who they are."
Henry (7th grade) - "The Day of Silence is important to me because I believe that all prejudice actions against the LGBT community should stop. This day is not only to support the community but it is also about honoring the various kids who are bullied each day because of their sexual orientation - kids who have to be silent to protect themselves from verbal or physical harassment. I am thankful that the city of San Francisco also supports LGBT people and acts as a beacon of hope for those who need it."
Crystal and Noa (8th grade)- "This day is symbolic to us because we feel that it is important to show our support for people in the LGBT community that are bullied for expressing their feelings and being themselves. Nobody should have to be silent about who they are, and we hope that one day all people will be able to openly express themselves without being discriminated against or judged. We feel that the Day of Silence is a small step in helping our community accomplish that, and we're really proud to be participating in this event."
Even with these efforts, our school still has further to go in combatting the silence. However, these words, once again, make me proud of what powerful change-makers our students are at the San Francisco School.